youâre just beginning to play as a kid, youâre much more likely to find yourself working on a one-note-at-a-time version of âTwinkle, Twinkle, Little Starâ than climbing any stairway to heaven.
But if you have a little patience and you work really hard, then maybe you move on quickly to even greaterchallengesâlike actual songs with maybe a couple of chords. Unless youâre a true prodigy, youâre going to have to practice for a while being bad before you get any good. And it will seem like a waste of time. I remember that feeling well. But donât worry about wasting time, because itâll be so worth it. Itâs my experience that in the end, life lessons and guitar lessons begin to blur in all sorts of interesting ways.
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Itâs my experience that in the end, life lessons and guitar lessons begin to blur in all sorts of interesting ways.
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A few years ago a smart guy named Malcolm Gladwell wrote a really interesting book called
Outliers: The Story of Success
that takes a serious look at what factors contribute to any individualâs success. One of the core conclusions that he reaches in his study is something he calls the â10,000-Hour Rule.â Basically, Gladwell writes that no matter what youâre doing, you most likely need to spend ten thousand hours working at it before you master it.
Now, I donât know how accurate that figure is for the guitar, but I get the point. Some of you out there reading may have been blessed with the good fortune of being born great at something, but most of us mere mortals still have to get good first, and that process usually takes a little time. I thinkit was years before I was doing anything you would consider âgreat.â But donât be dismayed. Those werenât bad years. Far from it. They were incredible and exciting in retrospect. A little hobby that seemed like a side interest was gradually becoming my focus. And now here I am.
The big problem here is that getting any young person with a short attention span to spend ten thousand hours doing anything can be an uphill battle. Thatâs never been more true than these days when whatever kids do has to compete with so many attractive options. It can be surfing the Web, playing video games, tweeting, or Facebook. Back in my day, I confess that I played my fair share of Donkey Kong, but even then there was no Web for me to surf and I didnât have a status. Well, yes I did, it just wasnât posted anywhere yet.
Whatever you want to do in this life, Iâm here to encourage you not to lose hope or give up during the first hundred or so of those ten thousand hours that it takes to get good. You should know that in my case it took me a while to âget the bugâ for guitar, as my grandpa used to call it. He always said it would happen, almost like a slow sickness. And he knew it would take time.
I actually quit playing guitar for one summer because it was just too nice outside and I needed to concentrate fullyon playing sports, or at least thatâs how I pitifully explained it to my grandfather. Itâs easy to see why I did thisâmaybe I thought I could get good enough at something like baseball to actually have a future in it. More likely, at nine years old or so, I just felt it was too nice out that summer to stay inside and play the guitar. After all, the guitar is something you primarily just do inside, right? Boy was I wrong. Little did I know how infrequently I would actually play the guitar
inside
in the summer someday. Iâd say 90 percent of my gigs from May to September are outside. These days, playing in the summertime is most certainly an outdoor sport. Truth be told, I think what I was really trying to do by taking a break was ease into quitting the instrument altogether. I really just didnât love it yet. It hurt my hands unless I practiced all the time, it didnât sound like anything on the radio, and I was